Wife furious after husband joked ‘guess who’ when brother was killed in motorcycle accident and now he’s mad because she didn’t invite him to funeral
- A woman left furious after her husband ‘guessed her who died’
- She said he was the first to be told about her 21-year-old brother’s bicycle accident
- Now he’s mad because she went to the funeral alone and didn’t want to talk to him
A woman has become furious after her husband asked her to ‘guess who’ when breaking news of her 21-year-old brother’s death.
The woman has since banned her husband from attending the funeral and has refused to go home to see him for three weeks.
He is now furious with her for barring him, but many people feel that she has not gone far enough and should consider divorce.
Man struck after ‘guess who’ joke when he told wife someone in her family had been killed in an accident (Stock image)
The woman said her sister initially called to bring the devastating news, but her phone was charging, so she hadn’t seen him.
She was checking her phone when her husband called and answered right away.
“He told me he got the news of a relative’s death from my sister…and then he said ‘guess who!’,” she wrote in a statement. reddit wire.
“I angrily told him to stop and tell me, but he was still okay with asking me to guess that I was losing it then because my nerves were running out. I yelled at him and then hung up.’
She then called her sister who revealed that their youngest brother had died in a motorcycle accident.
“I drove to my hometown on my own six hours away and my husband was upset when he found out I didn’t wait for him to take him,” she said.
The woman said she felt her husband had been toying with her emotions, but asked her fellow Redditors for their opinions after fearing she was wrong.
“He wanted to come, but I said I would have been kicked out if he showed up, causing him to panic when he yelled that I had no right to rob him if I said goodbye to his favorite brother-in-law.
“He said my anger was misplaced and that I took it out on him for no reason other than the ‘bearer of the bad news’ and that no one wants to be that person, but he tried to be nice about it. ‘
But everyone seemed to be on the side of the woman, labeling his actions cruel, manipulative and inappropriate.
“So you have to think about the possible deaths of all your relatives until you guess the right one?” a woman asked.
‘That’s horrible! Everything you had to do after that to protect yourself was understandable,” she continued.
“He made you mourn all your family at once, that’s unforgivable,” said another.
The man was upset because he was not invited to the funeral and his wife did not want to talk to him
The woman went on to explain a list of relatives who had gone through her mind, including her mother, nieces and elderly aunt.
“Your husband may be the cruelest person I’ve read about here,” someone said.
Others said the woman should describe him as her ex-husband instead.
“It was so sadistic that she didn’t have to stay any longer. There are some things that are deal breakers and this was one of them,” said one.
Not only do I think OP is justified in excluding him from the funeral, I think she would be justified in excluding him from the rest of her life if she wanted to. He’s incredibly insensitive to her if he could do that to her,” added another.
The message quickly went viral and thousands of people took the floor.